Monday, December 14, 2009

Right Time, Right Place, by Richard Brookhiser

The author knows how to write but not when to stop. This isn’t quite fair–rather, his best writing is done in his one-page essays that run monthly in National Review (“City Desk” and “Country Life”). Brookhiser can fit in a single magazine page all the dirty beauty of New York City, which he clearly loves. There are pages in Right Time, Right Place that recall those brilliant short essays, but they are set amid muddy stretches of exposition.

The title is not just a pun. Brookhiser submitted a piece to National Review while a high-school student. Buckley accepted it and made it the cover story. Brookhiser kept the connection as a college intern (he attended Yale, as Buckley had done) and soon got an offer to write for the magazine full-time. He chose to accept rather than to attend Yale Law School. Buckley told him after a few short years that he wanted him to step into his shoes at the magazine.

Buckley became a new father to him, though Brookhiser never explains why his own father faded out after the son joined Buckley at the magazine. After ten years, Buckley left him a short letter to avoid a personal encounter. The letter informed him abruptly that Buckley had changed his mind. There is here a brief tribute to the original, less, exciting man, when Brookhiser describes what happened after receiving the firing lines from Buckley:

“I told my brother and my parents. My father came through. He had retired from Eastman Kodak only a few years earlier. He had never talked to me or, as far as I knew, anyone about his job. He went in the morning and came home at night. I had been to his office a couple times; it was decorated with a picture of an elk in a pond that he had taken on our road trip west. Now he told me that he had once missed a promotion he felt he deserved, which went instead to the son of a director of the company. He told the man who made the pick, and the man who benefited from it, that he believed he was the better man, but that he would do his best in the new order of things regardless. He also said that if I wanted to go to law school, ten years late, he would pay for it. Economists, even those whose systems are mindful of human motivation, can write as if jobs come out of a pot labeled “Economy.” They do, but they get done because people–in my father ’s generation, men–go to work five days a week and do them. Some of us love our jobs, but many more of us only like them well enough. My father had gone to his job for almost forty years to support himself and his wife and his sons. Now he was offering another share of those earnings (carefully, even penuriously, saved) to me. I was impressed; he was a better man than the idol I had put in his place.” (140)

Buckley’s abrupt dismissal of him came as a blow and a betrayal. Still, Brookhiser admits his executive defects.

Brookhiser somewhat resented the general Catholic atmosphere at the magazine. The prevailing winds at least were Roman. Again, he fails to make a possible connection from his own biography. His father, raised Catholic, married a Protestant over objections from family and Church. In turn, Brookhiser disappointed his own parents by marrying a Jewish woman. For a book about fathers and sons, the author does not discuss the fact that he and his wife have no children. He does describe being stricken with testicular cancer, but the aptness of this affliction passes unremarked.

The later chapters are dull–the mountain has been climbed. The stroll amid the broad sunny uplands is not so bracing.

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Smart Women Finish Rich by David Bach - Book Review

Smart Women Finish Rich was the first financial planning book I ever purchased, read, and actually used.   I bought it in my early twenties, when I was finally ready to make some changes in my financial life – I had been so anxious about the state of my finances that I was finally committed to making some changes.

Now, years later I still go back to this powerful book, which I consider a staple in my financial management diet.  I re-read chapters and absorb the lessons, and try to put a little finesse into the details.

When I first read it I thought I was so clever – because the book really appeals to the emotional side of managing your money.  David Bach wrote the book with a very positive emotional angle that I think seriously appeals to women, and motivates them.  It did for me anyways.

About Smart Women Finish Rich

It’s surprisingly easy to read.  When you read it, it’s like you’re having a casual conversation with David himself.  He’s charming, and caring, and flattering.  He makes you feel like a genius – just for having picked up the book and reading it.  And while you’re being shmoozed so thoroughly, you actually learn a lot of things about money and personal finances.

He peppers his book with anecdotes about his grandmother that are very quaint and charming, and that actually sound sincere.  The most important reaction from all of this buttering up – is that you actually want to take action.  I felt like following his advice would obviously work, because he’s an expert, and his manner of writing is so sure and confident.

The Finish Rich Steps

He touts nine big steps in his book, which are absolutely fundamental to your financial prosperity, and you could even go as far as to say your life’s happiness.

Step #1 – Learn the Facts – and Myths – About Your Money

Step #2 – Put Your Money Where Your Heart Is

Step #3 – Figure Out Where You Stand Financially…And Where You Want To Go

Step #4 – Use The Power of the Latté Factor

Step #5 – Practice Grandma’s Three-Basket Approach

Step #6 – Learn the Ten Biggest Mistakes Investors Make and How to Avoid Them

Step #7 – Raising Smart Kids to Finish Rich

Step #8 – Follow the 12 Commandments of Attracting Greater Wealth

Step #9 – FinishRich Success Stories

My Call to Action

After reading the book – actually, while I was still in the middle of it – I went out and started to do exactly what he suggested.  I started to figure out where all of my money was, and where it was going.  I got all of my records straight – and in doing that I realized that I had been overpaying to an institution $450 a MONTH, and had been for 14 months.  So – I got my money back.  That was worth the price of the book hundreds of times over.

How did that happen, you are probably asking.  Well, years before I had those payments taken off of my pay directly.  And when my service ended, they didn’t stop the payments – and I didn’t notice, because I never looked at my paycheck!  I didn’t know where my money was going.

When I realized that David’s first step to being a Smart Woman was so fruitful, I took the second step.  I set up an RRSP account and made those payments automatic.  My goal was to save up enough to buy a house with the Home Buyers Plan.  (For more info – read my post on the Home Buyers Plan)

Then, three years later, thanks to David’s fantastic advice that really got me off my ass – I achieved my dream of home ownership.  Now I’m part of the mortgaged majority!

Use the Exercises and Worksheets

I filled out the exercises and worksheets when I first got the book, and when I re-read it a few months ago I noticed how some of my goals have changed, but most of them  have stayed the same (for example – I don’t necessarily want to do a Master’s in Political Studies anymore – but I do still want to go to graduate school, and take and MBA perhaps.)  That’s the advantage of planning your finances around your fundamental beliefs and values.   Those don’t really change, even if you short term goals do.

The worksheets that help you figure out where all your money is coming from, and going to, are so helpful.  But not only that – it helped me be a real grownup.  I bought myself a filing cabinet, and started to organize ALL of my important papers just like adults do - like university correspondence, insurance papers, medical info, vet bills, phone bills, Hydro – you can organize anything once you have the system in place.  Now I’m organized like a fox.  And on Saturday mornings when my husband sleeps in, I can do a little filing - totally undisturbed.

Why It’s So Important For Women

My husband saw Smart Women Finish Rich by my bedside, and took a look.  He said to me “why don’t you get Smart Couples Finish Rich?  It worries me a bit that you’re doing this without me”.  He was totally right, and I did get the book for couples.  But, I bought Smart Women Finish Rich before we met, and I will stand by the principles to the end!

I explained to him the lessons I learned through the book – that most women are sadly under prepared for their retirements, and end up living below the poverty line.  Historically, women have relied so much on men (fathers, husbands, sons) for their care in old age, they can be left disappointingly under-prepared when old age comes.

The reasons for this are many:

  • women statistically make less than a man, even for the same work
  • women are in the workforce for a shorter amount of time (leaving to have children, raise families, or take care of elderly parents)
  • women in lower-paying jobs don’t have the benefit of pension plans
  • women outlive men by an average of 6 years, and therefore have to stretch their smaller retirement incomes farther than men do

So, my justification to sticking to my worn out copy of Smart Women Finish Rich, with writing in the margins, tabs, and dog ears, is that I had to take care of myself first.  And then I could enter into our partnership as an equal, and equally prepared for our future.

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Friday, December 11, 2009

Review: The Amanda Project: Book 1: invisible I by Stella Lennon and Melissa Kantor

HarperTeen, 2009

Amanda Valentino changed everything.

Callie Leary has exactly one thing, and one thing only, in common with Nia Rivera and Hal Bennett: They were each chosen by Amanda to be her guide. When Amanda arrived at Endeavor High, she told Callie she moves around a lot and always picks one person to help her navigate the choppy waters of a new school. Why did Amanda lie?

Following a course that they suspect Amanda deliberately plotted, Callie, Nia, and Hal piece together some cryptic clues. But they find more questions than answers and quickly realize that before they can figure out what happened to Amanda—the girl who changed their lives—they’ll need to solve the most important mystery of all: Who is Amanda Valentino?

From HarperCollins website


This was a book that didn’t necessarily wow be from the get-go, but once I got into it, I was pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoyed it. After the first two chapters or so, I was riveted and drawn into the mystery of Amanda and her disappearance. There was also a side mystery surrounding an aspect of Callie’s life and I am dying to know more about that, along with who Amanda really was.

Once I did get into it, it was a quick read that left me wanting to immediately read the second book to find out what happens next.

The Amanda Project is an interactive series with it’s very own website where you can go and find out more clues about Amanda, where she disappeared to and who she really is.

Browse inside The Amanda Project.

Thanks to HarperCollins Canada for providing a review copy of The Amanda Project: invisible I.

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Book Review: <i>The Risk of Darkness</i> by Susan Hill

The Risk of Darkness is the chilling third book in Susan Hill’s Detective Simon Serrailler crime series. Beginning with The Various Haunts of Men and continuing with The Pure in Heart, Hill’s series introduced readers to the charming English town of Lafferton and its citizens. The Risk of Darkness continues the story line of The Pure in Heart, with Detective Serrailler finally hunting down an elusive serial child abductor.

Continuing the successful execution of the first two books, Hill interweaves many different plotlines and masterfully commands them all in The Risk of Darkness. In addition to dealing with the frustratingly reticent child abductor, Detective Serrailler’s case load increases when a grieving widower seeks solace by holding hostage the young female priest trying to help him. Detective Serrailler must also once again balance his work life with his private life. In The Risk of Darkness, he faces the prospect of both his on-again, off-again girlfriend and his sister, who is a beloved local doctor and his main support system, leaving his life.

As with The Various Haunts of Men and The Pure in Heart, the well-written characters and the town of Lafferton itself help the story come alive. In The Risk of Darkness, Susan Hill has crafted another well-paced, multilayered psychological thriller that shouldn’t be missed by fans of the series.

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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Trust Agent Learnings

Trust Agents

Last week, I finished reading Chris Brogan and Julien Smith’s highly touted book, Trust Agents.

We’ve all witnessed the continued adoption of the Web as a crucial communications tool. What continues to lag behind in the PR/Marketing world is thorough understanding of how human communications patterns and relationships translate to the Web.

Anyone who majored in communications in college was likely required to take either an interpersonal communications or public speaking course. Professors in either of these courses likely harped the importance of nonverbal communication. Most studies show that humans typically base 70-80% of communication with one another on nonverbal cues. This obviously becomes an issue with the Web being a primarily text-driven medium.

Becoming an effective online communicator seems pretty simple – just be human. Unfortunately, this is much easier said than done when you throw brands into the mix. Too often, companies assume the Web is broadcast-only medium and issue template language to protect their brand. In other cases, tempers flare and messages are misconstrued through emails – the list goes on and on. Without the luxury of nonverbal cues and direct human contact, one needs to adapt and be smart to come across as desired online. What’s the key to making this happen?

Building Trust.

Chris and Julien do a superb job of outlining how the Web can be a crucial leverage tool along with the host of key traits that make people stand out as effective online communications pros. To summarize a few of Chris and Julien’s overarching tips:

  • Create Your Space – It’s crowded online and to stand out, you need to bring your ideas and personality to life and be willing to experiment and try something new.
  • Belong - You need to be involved and connecting with your audience. It’s unlikely that people will haphazardly find you. Instead, you need to be willing to devote the time and effort to become a trusted member of your desired community.
  • The Web is Powerful – The Web is your access point to creating leverage and actionable results. Take advantage and build your base.
  • Be a Resource – In order to make the Web work to your advantage, you need to put in the time and energy to helping others first. We’re human – we like to have help and to reciprocate when helped.
  • Know People – We’re dynamic, complicated beings. As such, earn other people’s trust by knowing when to assist with other people’s weaknesses and bolster their strengths.
  • You Need Help – Success is driven through collaboration and the social Web is your tool to put that network in place.

I’ll end by saying that this book is well, well  worth they hype. An easy, relatively short read that is broken down with logical tips and action reminders, it’s a shoe-in for the perfect gift for your co-workers or clients. OR a perfect distraction from that inevitable holiday flight delay.

Enjoy,
Scott

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GoodReads

I cannot say enough good things about GoodReads. If you’re a hardcore bookie or a casual reader, you should be on there and here’s why:

  1. Reviews. You loved that book but you hated this one? Tell your GoodReads friends. Tell the world. Make recommendations. Get recommendations. You can even put your two cents in about other people’s reviews. GoodReads makes reviewing books fully interactive. No more must you suffer with bland reviews cookie cutter reviews!
  2. Bookshelves. You get the basics: Read, Currently Reading, and To Read. But then GoodReads lets you create and personalize as many bookshelves as you like. You want a shelf just for books that feature exploding robots, have at it. You want to divide your books by author? By genre? By protagonist’s name? Whatever your cups of tea are, GoodReads gives you the shelves to put them on.
  3. Lists. Okay, lets be honest. Who doesn’t love lists? They’re like perfection in a chaotic world and GoodReads has them. Lists from “Best Historic Fiction” to “Greenest Books Ever.” Read and vote on other member’s lists and make your own. List on, you list makers, list on!
  4. Social networking. C’mon, I know you Internet people love your social networks. Forget your MySpace and your Facebook. This is like BookSpace! Network with bunches of book fans just like you – share your read lists, your reviews, your favorite quotes, your favorite genres, your favorite authors. Hell, you can even network with your favorite authors.
  5. Groups. Like the modern day equivalent of an old ladies book club. Group with like-minded readers and share your thoughts and opinions about the books you’re reading, start private groups with your friends, or join challenges like the 50 Books a Year group I’m in. Everyone likes to belong and now you can … to book Groups on GoodReads!

I linked GoodReads eight times in this post. If you haven’t clicked on one yet, hop to it! Don’t be shy, I’ll even be your first GoodReads (now we’re at nine) friend. Go, go, go, go!

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Book Review: Everything Bad is Good for You

Everything Bad is Good for You: How Today’s Popular Culture is Actually Making Us Smarter, by Steven Johnson. RiverHead Books, 2005.

I really enjoyed the premise of this book, but did not find it to be a great read. Johnson argues against conventional wisdom that pop culture is making us all dumber, citing what he calls “The Sleeper Curve.”

Instead of moving toward the lowest common denominator in our television and movie watching and video gaming, Johnson make a convincing case that we are actually moving toward a greater complexity. He demonstrates that the multiple plot lines, inferences, allusions, confusing story lines and detailed social analysis required to watch contemporary popular shows like Lost, The Simpsons, The West Wing, 24, The Sopranos (or to play video games like Sim City, Age of Empires, Grand Theft Auto or Zelda)  are actually making us smarter. Audiences 50 years ago could not follow the complex story lines that we have come to love.

Johnson then goes on to cite neurological research about rising IQ tests over the last 50 years, and suggests that our increasingly complicated entertainment might actually be making us smarter. The role of the Internet in increasing interactivity and the demands made upon the viewer or gamer are helping our brains increase their capacity for problem solving, observation and analysis. He draws multiple inferences and makes a persuading case.

I enjoyed the argument, and he convinced me. All I had to do was contemplate how boring it is to watch an old episode of Leave it to Beaver, compared with the intertwining story lines and deeper characters of any contemporary sitcom. Or compare Gunsmoke to The Sopranos. It even made me want to learn to play video games, which have never interested me in the past.

However, Johnson’s writing style left much to be desired. It wasn’t anything particularly bad that I could put my finger on, but it just felt slow and repetitive. I had a hard time making it through the book, in spite of being interested in both argument and evidence.

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